Comments on: The Fear. http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/the-fear/ lesbian baby making Thu, 03 Dec 2009 04:47:01 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: j. k-c. http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/the-fear/#comment-3300 j. k-c. Mon, 28 Jul 2008 16:26:09 +0000 http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/?p=490#comment-3300 When my boobs would stop hurting I would push them and poke them and lift them up and let them fall, until the familiar ache returned....masochistic? maybe, but it helped me feel better....funny how those sore boobs are so reassuring. When my boobs would stop hurting I would push them and poke them and lift them up and let them fall, until the familiar ache returned….masochistic? maybe, but it helped me feel better….funny how those sore boobs are so reassuring.

]]> By: scarredbellybutton http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/the-fear/#comment-3278 scarredbellybutton Mon, 28 Jul 2008 12:04:31 +0000 http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/?p=490#comment-3278 Thinking of you and hoping all is well with the scan. Fluctuating boob soreness means nothing from my experience. Nothing means anything at all in this game. Thinking of you and hoping all is well with the scan. Fluctuating boob soreness means nothing from my experience. Nothing means anything at all in this game.

]]> By: gypsygrrl http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/the-fear/#comment-3277 gypsygrrl Mon, 28 Jul 2008 04:08:11 +0000 http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/?p=490#comment-3277 sending vibe so filled with the boringness that you both will be tempted to take a nap. ;P cant wait to hear from you tomorrow... and good decision on the waiting-to-tell thing... you both are so lovely and i think we should find a way to have the IVP with us all, in a moment's notice*... love you ALL, gypsy *am working on this in my mind tonight sending vibe so filled with the boringness that you both will be tempted to take a nap. ;P

cant wait to hear from you tomorrow…
and good decision on the waiting-to-tell thing… you both are so lovely and i think we should find a way to have the IVP with us all, in a moment’s notice*…

love you ALL,
gypsy

*am working on this in my mind tonight

]]> By: reproducinggenius http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/the-fear/#comment-3276 reproducinggenius Mon, 28 Jul 2008 01:08:43 +0000 http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/?p=490#comment-3276 I'm sending the vibes to ensure your scan is boring. You may want to take a book. It's going to be the dullest thing--except that you'll get to see your baby, and maybe even hear its heartbeat--but other than that, boring as all hell. It sounds like you made a good call staying home this weekend. It will be far nicer when you can share a photo from the scan. Keeping you in my thoughts. xoxo I’m sending the vibes to ensure your scan is boring. You may want to take a book. It’s going to be the dullest thing–except that you’ll get to see your baby, and maybe even hear its heartbeat–but other than that, boring as all hell.

It sounds like you made a good call staying home this weekend. It will be far nicer when you can share a photo from the scan.

Keeping you in my thoughts. xoxo

]]> By: Tiff http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/the-fear/#comment-3275 Tiff Mon, 28 Jul 2008 00:29:49 +0000 http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/?p=490#comment-3275 the scan will be lovely...of this i'm sure!! xoxo the scan will be lovely…of this i’m sure!! xoxo

]]> By: wishinghopingpraying http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/the-fear/#comment-3274 wishinghopingpraying Sun, 27 Jul 2008 23:53:48 +0000 http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/?p=490#comment-3274 I am sending you lots of perfectly boring and normal scan vibes. I hope you are both feeling better. I am sending you lots of perfectly boring and normal scan vibes. I hope you are both feeling better.

]]> By: jen http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/the-fear/#comment-3273 jen Sun, 27 Jul 2008 21:49:57 +0000 http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/?p=490#comment-3273 way boring scan vibes to you. Friends of ours got The Call about the possibility of a baby for them to adopt as they were walking out the door to drive to their relatives for Thanksgiving. They managed not to say anything but it was a hellacious weekend. Better that you spared yourselves! way boring scan vibes to you.

Friends of ours got The Call about the possibility of a baby for them to adopt as they were walking out the door to drive to their relatives for Thanksgiving. They managed not to say anything but it was a hellacious weekend. Better that you spared yourselves!

]]> By: Juniper http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/the-fear/#comment-3272 Juniper Sun, 27 Jul 2008 21:47:04 +0000 http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/?p=490#comment-3272 I've known several woman w/ stories like yours -- horribly sore breasts that suddenly were absolutely NOT sore --- and all was fine. Sending you many good thoughts. I’ve known several woman w/ stories like yours — horribly sore breasts that suddenly were absolutely NOT sore — and all was fine. Sending you many good thoughts.

]]> By: Att http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/the-fear/#comment-3271 Att Sun, 27 Jul 2008 20:13:19 +0000 http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/?p=490#comment-3271 You two will have a lovely scan tomorrow, of that I'm sure. I'm sure the lack-there-of soreness is just a wavering thing. All is well, hm? BIG good vibes!!! You two will have a lovely scan tomorrow, of that I’m sure.

I’m sure the lack-there-of soreness is just a wavering thing. All is well, hm?

BIG good vibes!!!

]]> By: Sara- Village http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/2008/07/27/the-fear/#comment-3270 Sara- Village Sun, 27 Jul 2008 19:58:20 +0000 http://veeandjay.wordpress.com/?p=490#comment-3270 I'm glad you dealt with your anxiety in a good way. You two need to take care of yourselves and do what feels right. As far as the boobs go... I had a big scare with mine too. All of a sudden, one day they barely hurt after causing significant pain day and day out. We freaked out and called the midwives. They said, "congratulations! good that you're feeling better!" It felt slightly patronizing yet somehow reassuring. Turned out that my body had a shift in hormones or got used to them or something.... Hang in there. I can't wait for the scan! I’m glad you dealt with your anxiety in a good way. You two need to take care of yourselves and do what feels right.

As far as the boobs go… I had a big scare with mine too. All of a sudden, one day they barely hurt after causing significant pain day and day out. We freaked out and called the midwives. They said, “congratulations! good that you’re feeling better!” It felt slightly patronizing yet somehow reassuring. Turned out that my body had a shift in hormones or got used to them or something….

Hang in there. I can’t wait for the scan!

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